The Telegraphflipped into WomenEvery time I was told 'no' as a girl it made me more determined to change the worldThe Telegraph - Laura HaynesI never knew I wasn’t equal. I was raised by a feminist and he always told me that I could be whatever I wanted to be - as long as I worked hard enough. So work I did. But then one day I discovered that there were these unwritten rules that somehow determined what we should and should not do – what …