Not every woman wants a Mariah Carey engagement ring–size 35-carat rock. In fact, for many brides-to-be, a smaller, less traditional engagement ring is what ultimately fits the bill. Getting caught up in the four Cs—color, cut, carat weight, and clarity—can often take away from the entire sentiment, drawing more attention to the cost (and Instagram appeal) than the deep personal value that this little piece of jewelry will hold for its wearer. An engagement ring can be precious in more ways than one, after all!
Our tip? Skip the big-box jewelry stores and consider brands like Ceremony, which embraces love of all kinds with its elegant, unconventional signet rings, pavé bands, and solitaires—all of which are gender-neutral and semi-customizable. Even better, Ceremony’s direct-to-consumer model means its rings are free of the usual industry markups. Loop is another e-commerce brand to check out, particularly if you’re into more of a classic look; its pavé-set solitaire halo ring starts at just $900.
Meanwhile, Ileana Makri’s wavy, asymmetrical pearl band and Spinelli Kilcollin’s sleek rose-gold ring are simple yet fashion-forward options. Kilcollin’s is diamond-free, too, if you’re really looking to buck tradition. Other designers are making the case for choosing a colorful gemstone instead of a diamond, like Vale Jewelry’s pink sapphire slice ring or Jennie Kwon’s triple-stone stunner with blue sapphires. And if you’re shopping for a vintage fan and none of these rings are speaking to you, a piece of antique jewelry might just be the way into her (or his) heart.
Below, peruse 21 chic, alternative engagement rings that will mean the world to your lover—without breaking the bank.
